Losing your training wheels in Leadership

when you first learned to ride, what was the color of your bike?

RED?

Mine was. Ok, it wasn’t my bike. My friend Brian from down the street had a small red bike. Mine was a full-sized, used, hand-me-down bmx. I am not even sure how my dad could have found training wheels for it. The top tube (middle bar for those of you who don’t ride) was almost as far up from the ground as I was. However, the red bike Brian had fit just right. It was a perfect height from the ground for a 5 year old. It had training wheels too! But the greatest thing about his bike is that it gave me confidence to build on for riding my own bike. A few spins on that puppy taught me that I could possibly learn to ride without the training wheels. His dad set us free the very next week. Sure, he held the seat and started us down a small hill near his house to help us get going, but by the end of week two we were flying — skidding to stops AND MOST IMPORTANTLY I was getting the courage to step up to my full-sized bmx.

Leadership is like learning to ride a bike. You will start slow, it will come to you over time, once you learn you won’t forget AND you will gain confidence with each success to step up into bigger situations. Akin to bike riding, you can gain some confidence and some assistance by tapping the experience offered by others who have learned to ride and are out there ‘enjoying the sport’. Save yourself some early pain by dedicating yourself to learning about leadership and easing your way into it, possibly even getting a mentor.

That is what these blog articles will be for… to help you get going. I don’t have all the answers, so you won’t find me writing all the articles. My goal is to make the early experiences in leadership more beneficial. Odds are you will still have some crashes that will cause some pain – those are unavoidable, even with training wheels and assistance. But as you come to experience the thrill of leadership and glean from the insights of others, I am betting you will in turn become a leader who is reaching your potential.

I am looking forward to counting you in as a leader who is learning and making positive impacts in your world!

  • keep reading here
  • apply what you are learning
  • read from other great sources
  • start processing WHO will make for a great mentor

read & practice it – Ryan Russell

this is not a comprehensive list, but these are 5 MUST READ books to move you forward in your leadership practice. every leader is in the process of practicing better leadership… they aren’t just learning.

Celebration of Discipline: The Path to Spiritual Growth by Richard J. Foster

Courageous Leadership by Bill Hybels

The E-Myth Revisited: Why Most Small Businesses Don’t Work and What to Do About It by Michael E. Gerber

Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity by David Allen

Theodore Rex   by Edmund Morris [this caused me to realize just how important historical leadership lessons are & more importantly, that history isn't boring.]

each of these books pushed me forward significantly as a leader. i put my name in the title because there will be more posts from other leaders that i respect. eventually i  aim to aggregate the lists into a YOUNG LEADERS MUST READ & PRACTICE list.

don’t be stupid anymore

one of the most basic leadership axioms that i hear from leaders at every level is KEEP LEARNING. usually this is followed by a command to read tenaciously. i would like to add to that by saying that you must read + apply (try) what you read. you can’t just be a learner in leadership, you must also be an experimenter with the knowledge that you are gaining. what ever your gut level passion is that will end up being the feild of your leadership, you must pursue learning with an insatiable hunger combined a with a courageous desire to implement new ideas & thoughts. a remarkable young leader i know is already chasing down his desire to be in the FBI (then the secret service) at the age of 15 by learning, volunteering and seeking the direction of those who know how to get there. 

what are you doing?

ask yourself…

  1. what are you reading right now that will prepare you for your leadership?
  2. who are you learning from that is further out in front of you in your feild of leadership?
  3. how are you experimenting with the implementation of new ideas into your chosen arena?
  4. what area of leadership are you working on right now with yourself to become a better leader?